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For me it is All About Being of Service & Living the Life of the Give-Away....

Being Mindful of those who are unable to speak for themselves; our Non-Two Legged Relations and the Future Generations.

It's about walking on the Canka Luta Waste Behind the Cannunpa and the ceremonies.

It's about Mindfulness and Respect. It's about Honesty and owning up to my foibles.

It's about: Mi Takuye Oyacin

Wednesday, January 2, 2013

A New Year...

As I think back upon 2012, I am amazed at all the hatefulness, retaliation, lies, sabotage, insanity, destruction of life & the planet, and pure unmitigated evil that was perpetrated/unleashed on all levels, not just in my personal life, but planet wide.

The more I do my home-work, the more I am convinced that the purported end of the world on 12/21/2012 was not about the end of the physical living world, but was about putting an end to the insanity that plagued many of us in 2012.

More and more, I am seeing light, the vanquishing of evil & hatred, the end of subjugation, the standing up for what is right & just for All Living Beings, the conscious healing of the planet & the return to love.

The fight is not an easy one, but as there seems to be a universal awakening, the strength is in the coming together of like minds and in the numbers.  People are waking up and finally taking notice of what is going on, showing up, and speaking out. More and more prayers for justice, goodness & peace are being answered in the affirmative.

There is strength in numbers......  We are finally becoming the change that we want to be and see in the world.

 
My prayers and wish is for World Wide Peace, a Healthy Happy Earth, and a safe life for All Living Beings (especially our non-two-legged relations).

Mita Kuya Oyacin

 





  

Tuesday, January 1, 2013

Cyber-Stalking


 
Question: What is cyberstalking?
Answer: Cyberstalking is a technologically-based “attack” on one person who has been targeted specifically for that attack for reasons of anger, revenge or control. Cyberstalking can take many forms, including:
  • harassment, embarrassment and humiliation of the victim
  • emptying bank accounts or other economic control such as ruining the victim's credit score
  • harassing family, friends and employers to isolate the victim
  • scare tactics to instill fear and more.
The term can also apply to a “traditional” stalker who uses technology to trace and locate their victim and their movements more easily (e.g. using Facebook notifications to know what party they are attending).
A true cyberstalker’s intent is to harm their intended victim using the anonymity and untraceable distance of technology. In many situations, the victims never discover the identity of the cyberstalkers who hurt them, despite their lives being completely upended by the perpetrator.
Cyberstalking is not identity theft. An identity thief, whether stealing from a stranger or a family member, has a very specific goal in mind — financial gain. Identity thieves are unconcerned by the consequences of their behavior on the victim’s life, whereas the actions of a cyberstalker are deliberate and focused on the consequences to the victim.
The above piece is first in a series of nine articles on women and cyberstalking written for About.com by cyberstalking expert Alexis A. Moore, founder of the national advocacy group Survivors in Action. Links to the entire series are below.
Cyberstalking Article Index:
Related Articles
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Cyberstalking Laws:
http://www.ncsl.org/issues-research/telecom/cyberstalking-and-cyberharassment-laws.aspx 

State Cyberstalking and Cyberharassment Law


Overview | State Statutes


Last update: Nov. 16, 2012
PLEASE NOTE:  The National Conference of State Legislatures (NCSL) serves state legislators and their staff. This site provides comparative information only and should not be construed as legal advice. NCSL cannot provide assistance with individual cases.

Overview

 Many states have enacted "cyberstalking" or "cyberharassment" laws or have laws that explicitly include electronic forms of communication within more traditional stalking or harassment laws. In addition, recent concerns about protecting minors from online bullying or harassment have led states to enact "cyberbullying" laws. This chart identifies only state laws that include specific references to electronic communication. However, other state laws may still apply to those who harass, threaten or bully others online, although specific language may make the laws easier to enforce. This chart classifies the various state laws addressing these three different types of online behaviors, as described below.
Cyberstalking.  Cyberstalking is the use of the Internet, email or other electronic communications to stalk, and generally refers to a pattern of threatening or malicious behaviors. Cyberstalking may be considered the most dangerous of the three types of Internet harassment, based on a posing credible threat of harm. Sanctions range from misdemeanors to felonies.

Cyberharassment. Cyberharassment differs from cyberstalking in that it may generally be defined as not involving a credible threat. Cyberharassment usually pertains to threatening or harassing email messages, instant messages, or to blog entries or websites dedicated solely to tormenting an individual. Some states approach cyberharrassment by including language addressing electronic communications in general harassment statutes, while others have created stand-alone cyberharassment statutes.

* Note: This chart does not cover cyberbullying laws. Cyberbullying and cyberharassment are sometimes used interchangeably, but cyberbullying generally refers to electronic harassment or bullying among minors within a school context. See the NCSL's Education Program's cyberbullying page for more information on cyberbullyings laws and legislation.
See also:  State laws related to electronic solicitation or luring of childrenInternet filtering laws--schools and libraries, and NCSL LegisBrief: Protecting Children Online.
 
California 
Cal. Civil Code § 1708.7,   http://www.leginfo.ca.gov/cgi-bin/displaycode?section=civ&group=01001-02000&file=1708-1725

Cal Penal Code § 646.9  http://www.leginfo.ca.gov/cgi-bin/displaycode?section=pen&group=00001-01000&file=639-653.2

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Well, If the Shoe Fits....

Are YOU In Need of Help? Confused? Jealous? Paranoid? Combative? Retaliatory? Vengeful? Just Bat Shit Crazy?  Well, here's a link for you. One that just might explain and help you to understand your problem:

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmedhealth/PMH0001935/

Here are a few pages from this link to help you on your way:

Narcissistic Personality Disorder

Last reviewed: November 14, 2010.
Narcissistic personality disorder is a condition in which people have an inflated sense of self-importance and an extreme preoccupation with themselves.

Causes, incidence, and risk factors

The causes of this disorder are unknown. An overly sensitive personality and parenting problems may affect the development of this disorder.

Symptoms

A person with narcissistic personality disorder may:
  • React to criticism with rage, shame, or humiliation
  • Take advantage of other people to achieve his or her own goals
  • Have excessive feelings of self-importance
  • Exaggerate achievements and talents
  • Be preoccupied with fantasies of success, power, beauty, intelligence, or ideal love
  • Have unreasonable expectations of favorable treatment
  • Need constant attention and admiration
  • Disregard the feelings of others, and have little ability to feel empathy
  • Have obsessive self-interest
  • Pursue mainly selfish goals

Signs and tests

Like other personality disorders, narcissistic personality disorder is diagnosed based on a psychological evaluation and the history and severity of the symptoms.

Treatment

Psychotherapy (for example, talk therapy) may help the affected person relate to other people in a more positive and compassionate way.

Expectations (prognosis)

The outcome depends on the severity of the disorder.

Complications

  • Alcohol or other drug dependence
  • Relationship, work, and family problems

References

  1. Blais MA, Smallwood P, Groves JE, Rivas-Vazquez RA. Personality and personality disorders. In: Stern TA, Rosenbaum JF, Fava M, Biederman J, Rauch SL, eds. Massachusetts General Hospital Clinical Psychiatry. 1st ed. Philadellphia, Pa: Mosby Elsevier;2008:chap 39.

Review Date: 11/14/2010.
Reviewed by: Linda Vorvick, MD, Medical Director, MEDEX Northwest Division of Physician Assistant Studies, University of Washington School of Medicine; and David B. Merrill, MD, Assistant Clinical Professor of Psychiatry, Department of Psychiatry, Columbia University Medical Center, New York, NY. Also reviewed by David Zieve, MD, MHA, Medical Director, A.D.A.M., Inc.

 http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmedhealth/PMH0001930/

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Paranoid Personality Disorder

Personality disorder - paranoid
Last reviewed: November 14, 2010.
Paranoid personality disorder is a psychiatric condition in which a person has a long-term distrust and suspicion of others, but does not have a full-blown psychotic disorder such as schizophrenia.

Causes, incidence, and risk factors

The causes of paranoid personality disorder are unknown. The disorder appears to be more common in families with psychotic disorders such as schizophrenia and delusional disorder, which suggests genes may be involved. However, environmental factors may play a role, as well.
The condition appears to be more common in men.

Symptoms

People with paranoid personality disorder are highly suspicious of other people. As a result, people with this condition severely limit their social lives.
They often feel that they are in danger, and look for evidence to support their suspicions. People with this disorder have trouble seeing that their distrustfulness is out of proportion to their environment.
Common symptoms include:
  • Concern that other people have hidden motives
  • Expectation that they will be exploited by others
  • Inability to work together with others
  • Social isolation
  • Detachment
  • Hostility

Signs and tests

Like other personality disorders, paranoid personality disorder is diagnosed based on a psychological evaluation and the history and severity of the symptoms.

Treatment

Treatment is difficult because people with this condition are often very suspicious of doctors. If treatment is accepted, talk therapy and medications can often be effective.

Expectations (prognosis)

The outlook usually depends on whether the person is willing to accept help. Therapy and medications can reduce paranoia and limit its impact on the person's daily functioning.

Complications

  • Extreme social isolation
  • Interference with work

Calling your health care provider

If suspicions are interfering with your relationships or work, contact a health care provider or mental health professional.

References

  1. Blais MA, Smallwood P, Groves JE, Rivas-Vazquez RA. Personality and personality disorders. In: Stern TA, Rosenbaum JF, Fava M, Biederman J, Rauch SL, eds. Massachusetts General Hospital Comprehensive Clinical Psychiatry. 1st ed. Philadelphia, Pa: Mosby Elsevier;2008:chap 39.

Review Date: 11/14/2010.
Reviewed by: Linda Vorvick, MD, Medical Director, MEDEX Northwest Division of Physician Assistant Studies, University of Washington School of Medicine; David B. Merrill, MD, Assistant Clinical Professor of Psychiatry, Department of Psychiatry, Columbia University Medical Center, New York, NY. Also reviewed by David Zieve, MD, MHA, Medical Director, A.D.A.M., Inc.
Copyright © 2012, A.D.A.M., Inc.
 
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmedhealth/PMH0001934/
 
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Monday, December 3, 2012

But All I Wanted Was........

Last week, Tuesday, I went into Von's in La CaƱada Flintridge to purchase Signature Salads, breakfast for the staff & a Large Starbucks Frapp.

There are only Four (4) salads in the deli case..... The Specialty Drink cold cases at the registers were over 1/2 empty, but I spied a small bottle of Frapp. I nonchalantly went to pay for the two items I had & was informed by the cashier, that I couldn't buy the small Frapp., because they are only sold in a FOUR PACK! 

Not a problem.....No It Was Not, but the Cashier & supervisor (who shall remain nameless) Very Mistakenly decided to make it a problem. The cashier kept repeating her mantra: "This is NOT For Individual Sale"... and I kept telling her that the cold case was empty and I'd like a LARGE One.

Then this rude supervisor, came up & joined in the Mantra..... Again I explained that I'd like a large one.... but that fell upon deaf ears.....

ALL They Had to Do was Get the Fraking Box-boy (who is a lazy sod, I know I fired him from his position working for me) to go check the shelves where they are also stocked. If there weren't any, I'd have purchased the Four-Pack. BUT NONE OF THAT HAPPENED, No It Did NOT! So, I said: "Fine, cancel my order!" and I left the store. As I was leaving the staff began sniggering, so I turned around to the supervisor & told her: "Thank-you so much for not listening to me!" 
 
Well, last week I wrote to Von's.... Unbelievably, some ignorant so-called customer service moron wrote to tell me:
"Thank you for your reply with the information we requested.

We appreciate the time you have taken to provide additional feedback on this issue and we can certainly understand your concern. In your previous email, you requested Starbucks Tall Fraps. Presently, we do not stock this item at stores in your area. However, we are forwarding your request and comments to our buyers of Starbucks products for their review and consideration. Thank you for taking the time to submit your product request. We do track these requests and they are reviewed often to help us determine which items to stock. We apologize for any inconvenience."
    I so Do Not Believe the unmitigated stupidity of Von's "Customer Service Staff".

Not to mention last week Starbuck LARGE Frapps. were on sale @ 2 for $4, but again none were in the cold case, it was still 1/2 empty, AND today THE COLD CASES ARE STILL UNSTOCKED.....

Grrrrrrrrrrrrr