Compassion & Illness

From His Holiness The Dalai Lama:
" The basic fact is that All sentient beings, particularly human beings, want happiness and do Not want pain and suffering"  Are you with me so far?  "On those grounds, we have every right to be happy and to use different methods or means to overcome suffering and to achieve happier lives."  NOW GET THIS:  "These methods, however, Should NOT Infringe on the Rights of Others, nor should they Create More Suffering for Others."

That being said, in regards to persons with Personality Disorders (according to Dobbert, Duane):
"Persons afflicted with personality disorders are commonly found in the mainstream....However they can be dangerous. Persons With Personality Disorders Always Create Victims. Victims experience physical, mental, and emotional losses. Victims experience a reduction in self-worth, unnecessary guilt, and emotional trauma."  

Dobbert goes on to say: "It is through the creation of these victims that the intrinsic needs of the personality disordered person are met. Their actions have purpose and intent. The pain of suffering experienced by the victim is PREMEDITATED. It is only through the creation of these feelings that the needs of the Disordered Person are fulfilled. The Disordered Person finds No Fault with their behavior, and accepts No Responsibility for the victims'  predicament or feelings."
 
So then: You frakin' sick person, are so Self-Centered and Egocentric, that I've noticed (as has everyone else) that you Do Not Experience any type of remorse for the Pain or Suffering which you inflict upon any of us who work with you. You are so Egotistical that you are only concerned about yourself.  

Now this is what I KNOW and Dobbert confirms:  You, the Egotistical Personality Disordered, Will NOT Change your behavior (get well), Until: The PAIN & Consequences of Remaining the Same is so Personally Overwhelming Painful, that the Pain You Experience Exceeds the Pleasure Derived of Torturing Others...  Or: You Will not Heal Until the Pain of Remaining the Same is Greater than the Pain of Healing!

So what I want to say is: STOP Playing Fucking Mind Games with the people you work with.  Fear & Loathing & Pity are Not Synonymous with Respect and Love. They Are Synonymous with Revulsion, Distaste and Hatred.  So in the end you become a Pariah, and people will go out of their way to ignore & avoid you.

The Beatles said it all:  "And in the end....The Love You Take...Is Equal to the Love You Make"