To the 30-something Whining About "Not Having an Elder"

My response to a young 30+ yr old who was bitching that there are no Elders Teaching her generation:

DISCLAIMER: "YOU" Is a General Term...... and this is a General teaching from one who has "Been there, Done that...got the tee shirt & the Scars"

There are NEW Elders, but the young ones ignore them/us......

The young ones don't want to hear what us elders (of your parent's age) have to say. So why should we (with the knowledge & answers) give it to people who blatantly ignore us, because what we have to say is NOT WHAT YOU WANT TO HEAR?

Why should we waste our breath & our time? We get tired of all the incessant whining and the refusal to take responsibility for one's own actions/choices.

You think you know it all and we know sheet...... So then we come to the conclusion that we are wasting our breath, so we shut up.

We of your parents' age ARE THE ELDERS and We Have the Knowledge......

We have suffered. been abused, eaten sheet..... So we KNOW!

However, when you come whining to us, asking us for "help" & information, all ya'll IGNORE us and go your own way.... So what are we to do?

We KNOW about: Unconditional Love; Rampant Hormones; the True Power of Women; Healing; Loving/respecting oneself...... etc.

In this day & age; We (women) ALL need to be self-reliant..... We need to recognize that we women Are the stronger of the sexes. We need to step up to the plate and take responsibility for our own life.

It is not about some man "taking care of me"...... Sheet GET REAL!

It is about Your Own Life CHOICES.... You make the Choice, then You Are Responsible........

You get pregnant, is Your Choice... Is Your Responsibility.....

You quit your job? Is your responsibility.....

You are an Adult..... You are a parent...... What are you teaching your children by your example?

WAKE UP..... We Can Not/Will Not do it For You...... Is Your Life Choice.....

You Can Not rely on anyone except yourself & Creator.......

Be HONEST...... Look within, Look at your "motives".....

HELL..... LOOK AT YOUR HORMONES...... They LIE... They are not the same as "Love" or your Heart's Desire.....

A baby isn't about: "Oh this will bring LOVE into my life".... A baby is about accepting sole responsibility for the life & teaching of another human being.

GROW UP! STOP Blaming others (your man/men, your parents) You Are the Only One Responsible For Your Life and Your Life Choices......

Wicosi ni wioki