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For me it is All About Being of Service & Living the Life of the Give-Away....

Being Mindful of those who are unable to speak for themselves; our Non-Two Legged Relations and the Future Generations.

It's about walking on the Canka Luta Waste Behind the Cannunpa and the ceremonies.

It's about Mindfulness and Respect. It's about Honesty and owning up to my foibles.

It's about: Mi Takuye Oyacin

Monday, June 1, 2009

Verbal Abuse in a Native Website: April 19, 2009

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I'm going to be honest here...I post the "Elders' Meditations" on a Native website , I Always say they are "Elders' Meditations", I do not give the link, as most of the people there know where they come from.

Today I bitched out about the postings being "plagiarism". A few days back I was Bitched out about something else I wrote and was told I'm (or my ideas/words are) "asinine", and a week or so prior I was Bitched out again. Sadly, it has become that the responses I get to the blogs I post have become a never ending Hate fest!

It seems that every time I post something in the blogs that two particular women don't like (Apachu & Wihanna), they verbally attack me...when I defend myself, they team up like a WWE Tag Team and become even more verbally abusive and just plain ugly. I was even told once by one of the two (Apachu) that I "should look in the mirror".

Obviously, I'm not allowed to post anything that these two disagree with unless I'm willing to be beat up.

What the Hell is going on that this type of continual hatred and abuse is allowed?

What is it about the hatred and name calling that is okay? And on some nights it's no better in chat...but that's a discussion for another time.

The place is making me sick...I can not stand the hatred and abuse, there is nothing healthy in that. Mostly I don't respond to the posts the two make in response because there really is no point...unless I want to bait a hook....but even that takes an enormous amount of energy.

I know both anger & hatred are an illness...condemnation of others is a mask of insecurity and low self-worth....bullying is just another form of enraged insanity.

When is it going to stop? When are people going to get well? When are people going to realize that by attacking others, they just make themselves look bad?

Anyways I'm tired of this...and I'm really hoping it stops, because that once was a wonderful site for friendship. I've met some wonderful friends here, but because of the discord most of my friends have left.

As my momma use to tell me, well actually she still does: "If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all".

I guess that's all folks!

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